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Dear @nna: Is Sexting Cheating?
Solve an argument between my boyfriend and me. I think sexting is cheating unequivocally, and he thinks because no physical contact occurs, it doesn't really count. Who is right?
Let's Talk About Sext
Well, LTAS, can't you both be...
Why Are We Gender Policing Emojis?
What's up with guys who use emojis? I don't mind it when it's my thirteen-year-old nephew, but a man I'm dating? I don't know. Is there some kind of rule about this or am I being priggish?
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How to Deal with Unresponsive Texters
Hello! I am a bi girl dating a new person (it's been about six weeks, but very casual). I like this person quite a lot, but she is, shall we say, not very good at responding to...
Getting Rid of an OkCupid Pen Pal
A quite pretty woman who lives in another country wrote to me on OkCupid a while back. She seemed VERY excited that I wrote back at all, even though I wrote back more out of courtesy than...
Revenge Porn: What to Do?
A friend of mine had a nasty breakup recently, and her ex has started threatening to make an album of her naked photos and sell them online. First of all, what the hell?! Is this even a...
Dear @nna: Is Cross-Posting on Social Media Annoying?
Dear @nna is an advice column for the digital age. Got a digital dilemma of your own? If you have a question involving technology, the internet, or online etiquette, shoot it to Anna.Pulley@EastBayExpress.com with the subject “Dear...
Out of the Closet and Into the Boudoir
Imagine stripping down to your underwear and paying someone thousands of dollars to take photos of you. No, this isn't a reverse form of Playboy, but it's what many women are doing as an apparent means of...












