Incontinence is one heck of a conversation killer. And that’s
only on those rare occasions when it enters conversation at all.
Granted, it’s not a topic that pops up over cocktails or at office
picnics or the gym. Leslie Howard says it should.
“Fifty percent of all women have experienced some form of
incontinence at one time or another,” says the longtime yoga teacher.
“They think it’s normal, because that’s what they’ve been told.” This
attitude of helpless resignation infuriates Howard, who focuses her
practice on the largely unsung region of the female body called the
pelvic floor, situated between the perineum and the pelvic cavity. Too
little tone and/or too much tension in these layers of muscles, nerves,
and connective tissue is typically involved not just in bladder
problems, but also in digestive, spinal, and sexual woes.
“It’s amazing how many women can’t even have intercourse because it
hurts them too much,” Howard says with a shudder. “They can’t even
think about it.” One common pelvic-floor problem is organ
prolapse, in which the bladder, uterus, or other organ protrudes into
“Think of your torso as a ‘tote bag’ for your organs,” Howard
proposes. “The pelvic floor is the bottom of the tote bag.” If it’s
weak, so the simile goes, the bag’s contents spill out.
The typical chain of events too often goes like this: shame-induced
silence followed by a life spent in adult diapers or by “very, very
invasive” surgery such as a hysterectomy. Howard realized how pervasive
that silence is when she mentioned her interest in pelvic-floor yoga to
her personal physician.
“My doctor told me that during an exam with a female patient, she
always asks three times whether that patient has been experiencing any
incontinence. She has to ask three times because, the first two times,
patients just say ‘No.’ They won’t even admit it to their doctor.”
In classes such as the four-session series starting Thursday, July
30, at 7th Heaven Yoga Center (2820 Seventh St., Berkeley),
Howard demonstrates how to identify the pelvic floor’s various parts
and shows students how to assess the conditions of their own pelvic
floors. She also teaches yoga poses that stretch, strengthen, and
otherwise promote wellness in that region. It’s a more effective,
proactive, and up-to-date approach, she asserts, than Kegel exercises
— a repetitive squeezing technique that has been the
anti-incontinence standby since the mid-20th century.
She also gives her students homework assignments. Some of this
homework involves digital insertion, but the first assignment is
always: Talk about it. Increased awareness, Howard says, can end
some of the health crises we too often take for granted. “It’s just
tragic that women are told today that it’s normal to be incontinent
after a certain age,” she says. “The adult diaper business is a
multibillion-dollar industry. I tell my students to go out and say to
all their female friends: ‘Hi! How’s your pelvic floor?'” 7:30
p.m., $70. 7thHeavenYoga.com