Savage Love

Etiquette, Bigotry, and Fetish Modeling

I am a straight, cross-dressing male into bondage. That's NOT my problem. Recently, I...

Anal Play Will Make You Gay

I have to say I'm disappointed. Proposition 8 passed in California, as did anti-gay-marriage...

Sleeping with Rover

I'm a 32-year-old female engaged to a 34-year-old man. Some months ago, when we were...

Channeling Your Sex-Act Imagination

My boyfriend recently moved in with me — the first straight guy I've ever...

Fortunes and Good Fortunes

Once again, Savage Love is given over to letters from readers who made the...

Make a Donation, Ask a Question

In this very special episode of Savage Love, I answer letters from readers who...

He Removed the Condom. What Gives?

I feel ridiculous e-mailing you about this, but I figure that if anyone has...

Stop Snooping

I accidentally discovered that my son-in-law is into BDSM sex as a "dominant." A...

Milking the Boyfriend and Other Sex Tips

My boyfriend and I are in our mid-twenties, love each other, and have been...

What’s Up With “What?!?”

Is it possible for a man to insert his balls into a woman? It's...

When Should I Do Now That His Parents Freaked?

I'm a middle-aged guy. My boyfriend has just left his teens. We originally got...

Where Do I Find a Lover?

I'm a 38-year-old straight male in a long-term relationship. We have two children, still...

Desperately Seeking Pegger

So I have been in a relationship with the same guy since I was...

Don’t Be Such a Liberal Pussy

You usually get mail about the sex lives of your readers, being a "sex...
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