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Full-Throated Sleep Apnea
I'm a middle-aged gay man and I was recently diagnosed with sleep apnea. This...
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Spit and Polish
I'm a 31-year-old cis bisexual woman. I'm hetero-romantic and in a monogamish relationship with...
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Thrown Bones
I'm 20, straight, male, fit, and active. I masturbated prone — flat on my...
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Pegging Saved Our Relationship
My boyfriend and I were having relationship issues until we tried something new: pegging....
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Cam What May
I started reading your column when I was a 20-year-old kid. Now I'm an...
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Rain Checks
I'm a 33-year-old woman in a relationship with a 43-year-old man. My boyfriend's fantasy...
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The Long Game
I'm a 30-year-old bi male. I've been with my wife for five years, married...
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Get Your Ass Into Therapy
I'm a 26-year-old bisexual woman with a history of self-harm. It hasn't been much...
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Oil and Latex Do Not Mix
How long after using an oil-based lubricant do I have to wait before I...
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Bottoming Out
I'm a 29-year-old gay man living in California. Why are most tops such assholes?...
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Open-Ended Relationships — But Only to a Point
I'm a mid-20s cis straight man. After my girlfriend and I finished college, she...
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Bloody Business
I am a 60-year-old heterosexual man, and I am being told that I'm normal....
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Kink Monsters
My husband and I (straight male/bi female couple) have been married 15 years. We...
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Spanking, HPV and Panic
My ex-girlfriend, who I dated for nine months, called me two months after we...
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