.Dan Savage

Dec 23, 2020


We hosted our second Savage Love Livestream last week, and it was a blast. I ran my mouth as fast as I could but...
Dec 2, 2020

Too Late

I'm at a bit of a loss. I met a guy that I really like at a nudist resort of all places. I didn't...
Nov 25, 2020

Dealing with phone harassment

A friend just shared on Facebook that she has been accosted by some dude—a stranger to her—over the phone. Sexually explicit stuff. She hung...
Nov 18, 2020


I've lived with my girlfriend for over a year now till about a month ago when she moved to the East Coast so now...
Nov 4, 2020

Old Times

I'm a 45-year-old straight woman in a monogamous relationship with a 48-year-old straight man. One thing that keeps playing over in my mind is...
Oct 28, 2020

Savage Love: The ‘patriarchal gaze’ killed porn for me

I've been with my partner for a year and a half and have been long distance from the start and she's working towards moving...
Oct 21, 2020

Love vs. Trump: Relationships are being tested in election season

I'm a 60-something straight woman. A few years ago, a longtime male friend and I, both in very unhappy relationships, did what I'd never...
Oct 7, 2020

Savage Love: What to do when an ex makes you miserable

I was dumped in August by a guy I was seeing for 10 months. He told me that he wants to work on himself...