Love & Sex

Celebrating Solo

In any given year, for a large portion of the population — namely, the...

Dear @nna: Is Sexting Cheating?

Solve an argument between my boyfriend and me. I think sexting is cheating unequivocally,...

Why Are We Gender Policing Emojis?

What's up with guys who use emojis? I don't mind it when it's my...

How to Deal with Unresponsive Texters

Hello! I am a bi girl dating a new person (it's been about six...

Getting Rid of an OkCupid Pen Pal

A quite pretty woman who lives in another country wrote to me on OkCupid...

Revenge Porn: What to Do?

A friend of mine had a nasty breakup recently, and her ex has started...

Dear @nna: Is Cross-Posting on Social Media Annoying?

Dear @nna is an advice column for the digital age. Got a digital dilemma...

Out of the Closet and Into the Boudoir

Imagine stripping down to your underwear and paying someone thousands of dollars to take...

When Porn Goes Public

Last First Friday, I did the following things in this order: met up with...

A Peek Into OneTaste’s Orgasm Empire

It was supposed to be a sexy Saturday night. I texted a few friends...

Not Your Mother’s Sex Toy

Lee Miltier has been hand-blowing glass for more than twenty years. His Berkeley-based company,...

Terrible, Horrible, Very Bad Dates

We asked; you answered: readers' worst-date stories. My Very First Date (Note: The name of my...

Yes, I’m a Dominatrix

In the old days — "old" meaning pre-Internet — members of the BDSM community...

Sex, Advertising, and the East Bay Express

From time to time we are asked about our paper's attitude toward sex and...
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